Break-ups are a part of every freaking teenager alive. Yep we have all been there, done that. Its more like, we eat, we drink, we sleep, we hook up, and we break up.
So how do you know what to do once you have broken up with your guy? Well, it totally depends on the type of break up you had.
# 1 – The mutual break up:
Well let’s just face it, this type SUCKS. You are left with no reason to dislike the guy if you still are not over him. The biggest mistake girls tend to make in this category of break up is to TRY to be strong and cool about it. But to be honest that is just not happening. You feel suddenly single, directionless and lonely. I guess this is where the human anatomy did wonders by creating this thing called a ‘shoulder’. So go ahead grab a girlfriend and there you are. Cry it out. Don’t try to befriend you ex the next day itself and take your time out. Since its mutual, getting back as friends is the easiest as nobody feels duped.
Songs you can listen to: Coldplay- Fix you.
Oasis- Stop crying your heart out. :D
Led Zeppelin- The Rain Song
death cab for cutie- lack of colour
# 2 – He cheated on you break-up:
OK. Let’s get the facts straight. This guy is a LOSER. He does not deserve you in the first place and you should be rather glad he out of your life. And if the girl he is going out with knew about it she deserves him. The biggest mistake that girls make in here is crying for a spastic moron who is totally not worth it. You can have two possible reactions to this, if you are the sweet girlie girl- ignorance is bliss, but if you want to get back to him (which in every way you should) make his life hell I say. Dress up to kill and let the loser know what he missed on to. Stalk him if you have to and make sure the bi*ch does not have a good time ever again. Flirt around and get the life you lost while you were dating him back. Don’t miss on the fun. Let the devil in you rise to power. ;)
Songs you can listen to: Kelly Clarkson- Never again
Kelly Clarkson- Since you have been gone
Beyonce- Irreplaceable
Hillary duff- Stranger
Rihanna- Take a bow
Simple plan- Your love is a lie

# 3 – He is just not into you:
This can be one of the harshest break-up for the girls. Even though we appreciate the honesty of the guy when he says that he just does not feel the same way anymore or that he is not into you its still sucks. The biggest mistake that girls do in this break-up is to put the blame on them. How many of us have felt that there is something wrong with us and that is the reason why it ended the way it did. In reality, that’s so not the case. You should just understand that you were not symmetrical at a level and it was the best to break it up than to drag it around. So cry as much as you want but don’t loathe yourself for it. Try not to see his face for a million years and take your sweet time.

Songs you can listen to: Audioslave- I m the highway
Take that patience
Good charlotte- Hold on
Linkin park- Numb (teehee.. no I m just kidding)
Death cab for the cutie- Lack of color
Switchfoot- You.

# 4- You dumped him.
Alright so you couldn’t take the relationship and ended it by yourself. You don’t have to feel like a bitch coz it was in your best interest. And just so that you know that’s one of the toughest thing to do and requires a lot of courage so just breathe. There is only one thing you can do and that is try not to be around him for some while. And flirting with other guys in front of him is an absolute no-no unless you want your ex lover wanting to shred you to pieces or maybe feel like a loser. Remember how you felt when you were dumped by your guy. So show some respect.

Songs you can listen to: Not that you need any but yet following make a good option:
The OC soundtrack- Honey and the moon
Anna Nalick- Breathe
The Fray- How to save a life.

And if you had a strange break up which doesn’t fall into any of the above category please let us know about it.